If ever someone calls you out for an insulting and oppressive remark…
1. Pause and reflect.
2. Do some work to unpack your privilege.
3. Don’t talk about your intentions, because they don’t really matter, and your insistence that you didn’t mean it doesn’t undo the sting. When you make it...

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